This definition has been on my mind for sometime now and I thought we would share the meaning of codependency. I remember the day I realized that I was taught codependency by most of the people whom were close to me and held the most important role in my life… my PARENTS. As we have been developing U.G.L.Y. Utah Girls Love You, I have had to learn about myself and see the wrong choices I have made in my life. And the biggest question of all is do I now take responsibility for the choices?… or push it off to others. For me, I have had to take responsibility for all of my choices and this has been really hard to open my eyes too, see my part, and take full responsibility of my life.
Realizing that I was codependent with every aspect of my life, I would blame everyone in my path. These steps I now see were very difficult to overcome. But through sheer determination to change my life for my children, myself and all those I love, I have finally taken responsibility and have now forgiven myself for all of my choices. I feel that realizing and forgiving are the biggest keys to change in a person. It is to evolve and be happy in this beautiful thing we call LIFE.
Happiness is truth….
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